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Sexual Journeys and Family Planning Part 2

• Zachery Williams • Season 3 • Episode 11

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Ever wondered what happens when sex gets awkward or downright freaky? Join us for an uncensored chat about our most memorable sexual escapades—like that unforgettable time on the stairs—and the all-too-real challenges that come from long periods of abstinence. We openly share our experiences, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding in navigating the highs and lows of intimate moments.

Sex isn't just about the physical—it's a mental and emotional journey, too. We break down the crucial role of pregame activities, such as kissing and foreplay, and how they set the stage for a satisfying encounter. Women's needs for emotional connection and the time they often require to reach climax are front and center in this lively discussion. We also touch on the necessity of transparency in expressing desires and how physical attraction alone doesn't cut it for a truly fulfilling experience.

Parenthood and relationships bring their own set of complexities, especially when honesty is at stake. From the legalities of signing a birth certificate to the responsibilities of preventing pregnancy, we uncover the critical aspects of parental responsibility. We dive into the criteria for choosing the right partner for parenthood, stressing the importance of love, care, and support over financial stability. As we reflect on our parenting goals and evolving life perspectives, we remind ourselves—and you—that the world keeps turning, no matter what challenges come our way.

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Speaker 1:

Hey you guys, welcome to Just the Two of Us. It is your broadcast host, mr Zach, so I want you to relax, put your feet up, grab you a glass of wine and a snack, cause you are tuning into my broadcast. See you later. Bye, thank you, thank you.

Speaker 2:

Oh, what's the freaking thing you want to try?

Speaker 3:

Because if we talk about action-wise, it's not. I know I had my head off the bed once and, oh Like I was laying on the bed and my neck was on the edge of the bed and I was hanging off and dude was just.

Speaker 2:

Like his dick was hanging out.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, so If you want to consider that and besides that, yeah, that's freaky. I fucked on the stairs.

Speaker 2:

So you fucked outside.

Speaker 3:

No, bitch no.

Speaker 2:

No.

Speaker 3:

Stairs in the house, stairs in the house, fucked on the stairs. I mean, yeah, that's as far as we can go, because anything else I mean it's regular sex. It's just depending on how heightened the sex is at the time.

Speaker 2:

So what's the frequency that you still want to try?

Speaker 3:

I mean, like I said, threesomes, it would still be on there, but for me, I'm not doing that with my man. It was one of those things. If we have a mutual conversation. No, that's what I said. I've done her too many fucking stories. I want us to not have a deeper connection with either one of us. I don't want y'all together. Me and him are not together, and me and you are not together.

Speaker 2:

Like a one night stand, just meeting up.

Speaker 3:

It can be one night shit. If we like it enough, we can do two nights, but it's one of those things none of us communication yeah, none of us are in committed relationships with each other. It's like, let's say, for example, we are mutual friends and we just have one on a night where, uh, we all feeling each other at the same moment and it's like none of us are together. We're mutual friends.

Speaker 3:

Nobody's in a relationship with anybody else outside this shit or inside this shit so long as there's that, I want to try something out tonight it's not random, like yeah random, or we took a moment where it could have happened, then brought it to another moment where we planned it out so, on top of that, have you ever had a how to say this?

Speaker 2:

a awkward moment during sex time? I have plenty of time. I would say there's a awkward moment during sex time I have plenty of time, like when a nigga can't do shit about it, or a nigga just like, oh, talk to me dirty type of shit. This shit is not working.

Speaker 3:

No, I got it. I got it. Yeah, I've had an awkward moment that led into moments of the same shit until it actually started working. The time I went four years without none. Okay, met, met a person and person was the biggest I ever had like what's the what's the biggest? No, no, no. We need that. A different topic. We talking about the awkwardness. The awkwardness wasn't the dick the awkwardness was the head.

Speaker 2:

Now you mean you gave a head, or he, okay, he you out yes, since it's been a long time.

Speaker 3:

It was like he was just there, like the nerves was not nervous like above the wall, like this is like a nurse inside was working, because I because it, when he's pounding it out, it's good, it's good, everything's great when he wants to go eat. Not can't say the man was eating it, wrong or right, because it felt numb. The nerves was like what's this, what's going on it?

Speaker 1:

was confused.

Speaker 3:

It was confused Like what's happening? Like am I supposed to react? It was one of those and then me.

Speaker 2:

I'm just there like, hmm, something ain't right, I'm just sitting there, there's no moan, there's's no sound.

Speaker 3:

It's just one of those um, I'm feeling movement, but I'm not feeling the tingling sensation of did it turn you off the nerves? It didn't turn me off it one. It made us both feel away. It made me feel like I was broken on the outside, because the inside was working and made me feel like I was, uh, halfway broke. Since then, he's dealt with females before me and there's never been a issue he felt discouraged.

Speaker 1:

It's like he felt like confidence went down he

Speaker 2:

felt like he was doing something wrong and I'm like no, I don't think it's you bro.

Speaker 3:

I'm not, really not feeling nothing I don't think, I I don't like she got walls. That she didn't mean by that, first of all, I should say, my nerves work on the inside, so if we talk about the outside, let's let's use the right terms. My vagina internally. What's working? Normal, normal as fuck, tight as fuck, wet as fuck, okay, cool. The clitoris, which is on the outer side, was just so unfamiliar of what the fuck was going on. She was not having the sensations that she was supposed to have so he felt discouraged.

Speaker 3:

I felt like I was halfway broke, like I said, because why one department's working and the department's not? They lay off so they're on vacation I was like, okay, this that way took some, took some. You was chilling, you were showing some nerves in the back like I need you to come to the forefront, oh we're going to war, we're gonna go.

Speaker 2:

Right now, we on the battle, we just chilling in the back like bitch. We on we on Wake up, bitch, wake up. So you're like wake up bitch, we on Like where you at.

Speaker 3:

But oh, what I'm supposed to do? It's been so long. How am I supposed to react? So, give or take, I don't know how many times, because he kept trying. He kept trying. It still got discouraging when nothing was happening, but it took that one moment when tingling started happening. Wait a minute. I feel something, the factor's on.

Speaker 3:

They got together it needed a few times to regulate what was happening so that the nerves to come to resurface, because and I also actually actually had this conversation with a different dude years later of that happening he understood because when guys he was he uses some of the example when he's gone for a long time and stuff like that he found out not because the nut is.

Speaker 2:

The nut is building up if you didn't use it for a minute but some people, if it's good or that much, they're not quick.

Speaker 3:

But when you go for a longer time it takes for that net to come. It took a minute for that net to want to come out because you're not, you're not jacking off. You're either not jacking off or you're not fucking or jacking off and you just to yourself. You got a longer span of in that coochie and knocking that wall out to. I don't know what that quote said. Knock the Mario coins out of them and you still?

Speaker 3:

ain't bust. So when you tiring her out and you still got rounds to go and you still didn't nut. So it's like when it's been a long period of time like that you can go longer doing certain shit.

Speaker 2:

You can't, but that's it. Do you have? Do you have?

Speaker 3:

the ability to go that long.

Speaker 2:

But when you said like you said something earlier, you said, um, when dudes don't go for a long period of time and they come faster, I hate that shit, you know.

Speaker 3:

But that's some, but I feel like that's only when you go a certain amount, because if you go longer like I mean years it's not a lot of dudes who will go without sex for years. So and then also including without jacking off either, there's not a lot of dudes who do that for years. My four years, I wasn't even nothing, nothing. I wanted a per, I actually wanted a person, but I didn't want just anybody, so I went that long. I went that long so I wasn't doing shit because it was not fulfilling me the way I wanted to.

Speaker 2:

She said part of her fact it wasn't on, she had to have. She had to have a conversation with her vagina I didn't need to have a conversation. Oh, you're talking about the head part.

Speaker 3:

Gee't need to have a conversation.

Speaker 2:

Oh, you talking about the head part. Gee, she need to have a conversation with her vagina.

Speaker 3:

I mean, it was one of those. It was like hey, I know it's been a minute and I know this is unfamiliar for you right now, but this is not only hurting him this is hurting me as well, because I'm not getting the enjoyment that I we used we used to have.

Speaker 3:

I need us to get us back on track, so it took a few tries and and he would be down there for a while so question for you and it's for me and it's for y'all too y'all listening, y'all think about, think about y'all past.

Speaker 2:

Have you ever had to tell a person how, the way, how you want sex? Are they doing it the wrong way?

Speaker 3:

I wouldn't say I had a person who did it the wrong way, person I wouldn't say wrong I'll lead them into the right direction.

Speaker 2:

How you want to be played, Please Like it's like I've always told people don't.

Speaker 3:

The whole thing of diving into the six in no pregame is I don't like. What do you mean by pregame? Pregame like whether it's head, whether it's even crushing each other's body, whether it's even even kissing I have a kissing session beforehand.

Speaker 2:

That pre part it sets it off do it determine if it's going to be good or bad?

Speaker 3:

yes, for me, because you can enjoy it all day long. But I wish you'd be like you can fake it till.

Speaker 2:

You make it too, until I personally get knocked the fuck off.

Speaker 3:

Listen in my younger days. I'm so young.

Speaker 2:

She said her fucking younger days.

Speaker 3:

In my younger days. When I mean younger days meaning like maybe the first one or two person I dealt with sexually. Yeah, I faked them shits Because I low key, felt that and I felt that internally, if I was just to sit here on how I actually felt with this basic regular face like and it's like and some niggas be thinking like you know, you see her face, look plain, they supposed to go hard, a nigga?

Speaker 2:

no stop what you're doing, stop I fake it so you can hurry up and get off they they, in effect, that when you do this shit right, when you're trying to tell them how you want to be played, please, they get mad. I'm trying to make sure that I'm good, you, you good, and we can do this shit together, so I pretended to fake it. Bitch, I can. Oh, baby, I have plenty of time for me.

Speaker 3:

I've done that, but after a while, I think, get your nut and go off of me. By the third person. It was one of those things. Okay, look, I think he axed me, and it was one of those. I'm about to lie no nut and it was one of those.

Speaker 2:

I'm about to lie. No, I did not. The mother ones didn't ask. I I saw I they didn't ask, so I pretended so jazzy, as a point of you telling me what was his reaction like you didn't know no no, then he was like did you feel anything? Like yeah.

Speaker 3:

I felt something, but I didn't get to my rise before you did. You got to yours before I did, and the thing about it is for some females. Every female is different, but on the average, I keep hearing that it takes longer for women than men it depends on the dick you have, though, but on in my opinion. Just as much as it depends on the dick, it depends on the vagina and it's like it could be dry as fuck.

Speaker 1:

But at the same time, at the same time it's about how deep she into you.

Speaker 3:

If a female is into you, that cool. She ain't gonna be dry. If she truly into you, that shit is wet before you even touch it. That's how I feel about my name. So again, when niggas be talking about bitches being dry, that bitch I'll simplify for you. She was not into you, she was not.

Speaker 2:

She had one and get it in no. She had one. No, I'm not.

Speaker 3:

I wouldn't think she wanted to get it in. I think it was just one of those I don't even know what to call it per se, cause dudes can fuck just to get their nut off and that's it and call it a day and keep pushing. I think one of those moments that she not into you and she just fucking you. I think she's just fucking you and she's just fucking you.

Speaker 2:

I think she's just fucking you.

Speaker 3:

It's for you, but she's not into you in any way, and let me validate that.

Speaker 2:

If you just want to get your nut off, cool, just tell me. You just want to get your nut off?

Speaker 3:

But you have to be honest though.

Speaker 2:

For me it's like two heterosexuals, not like two heterosexuals, not heterosexuals, two homosexuals. Right, we can't hear the length, we can't hear the talk, we can't hear the socialize you try to get your nut off. I try and get mine and get out our way now. If you come before me, I'm cool with it because you can get turned out of and.

Speaker 2:

I'm alright, I can finish cleaning myself, like back then my days I was a hoe, they know it. I was a hoe back in the day and, like with me, I don't like to use my dick. Yeah, I said it, I don't like using my dick for any. Like fucking dudes, my dick is not going in your asshole. Yeah, and like oh fuck, you should feel so good. You got your nut off all right, good, no, I'm not. I can. I can jack off all day but you have.

Speaker 3:

You have some people that's like that. You have some people. They they're more into pleasuring and getting the other person off versus them getting theirs off.

Speaker 2:

And get my, I thought for me it just get my mind turned on If you get my mind turned on, then everything else is going to order.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, but I for some people everybody's different I was one of those. Tv what you just can't get close to me. Let's talk again. So I'll say first you happy it, you have to get to me mentally as well as emotionally. You have to get those two connected before you can get to touch me. Okay, so we get along, got a good vibe, we have conversations, stuff like that. It's one of those. Okay, that's a start. That's a start. Now, me being into you, that's another thing. I cannot be into you at first, then be into you later. Then you got some cases where first, be fine as fuck, I'm attracted to you, but at the same time you still got to connect with me.

Speaker 3:

I would say you could be fine as fucking your sex and still can be weak but before we even get to the sex team I'm processing, before you even get to touch me but sometimes people get caught up in the moment and just skip that part and just boom.

Speaker 2:

No, true, but I feel like people who are built differently from you get like the trors there.

Speaker 3:

People like like they're ready to fuck because it's just how you look. Yeah, I get that. I get it for some people because that's them me. Yeah, you can be fine, all right, because you're not and I'm at my last job. That one, that one been like 6'7 dreads, you need 6'7 6'7 that's his height. Oh damn, yes, that nigga was tall. That shit used to hover me like a fucking tree, literally hanging all up in your faces. He do not fine as fuck.

Speaker 3:

Fine as fuck. And I know he got a third leg. I know he did, I know he did flirt. I know he did Flutter me and all Even had me starstruck, starstruck, starstruck. He had me stunned for words one time, starstruck, we can say I was minding my business, getting what I needed to get. He was in mid-conversation with two other people.

Speaker 3:

I didn't even think the nigga was talking to me at first, so I had to realize what he said did not connect with the conversation was about with them and I had to look are you talking to me? It was like so you won't give me your number, mind you, we're not looking out of eye yet. I'm just like confused, like I just dipped my neck down like you're talking to me, didn't say that but didn't. And then, without me saying that out loud, and just dip my neck down like you talking to me, didn't say that but didn't. And then, without me saying that out loud, and just dipping my neck down with confusion, he's like yeah, I'm talking to you.

Speaker 1:

I was like damn. You know what I?

Speaker 3:

said so I was like, um, I'll think about it Because you're not, but first of all, you already had me stuck for words. I'm not going to be like okay, I'm not about to say it like that, I'll think about it. And I left with a smile, but in my head it's like he really just did that just now. Fine as fuck.

Speaker 2:

Trying to call me. First of all, you said six, seven, five, bitch. That shit was tough when I said the first day he came to that job.

Speaker 3:

No, that statement you just said climb up a tree. I kid you, not my co-worker at the time, we both was looking at him, but my co-worker at the time. He's gay and I'm straight, so we both were going to have to see which direction he goes. Does he go straight or does he go your way? So when we figured out he goes my way, he was encouraging me to fuck him.

Speaker 2:

And so when we figured out he goes my way, he was encouraged me to fuck. Wait, so he. So you have you steers to like.

Speaker 3:

My neck has to look up to look at him. I have to look up, so it's the next thing for me If I come across this man today again. First of all, I still ain't dropping them. Drops that quick. It's one of those.

Speaker 2:

So will you try it?

Speaker 3:

I hope he was. I'm hoping he's in a better place Because at that time he was still figuring his shit out. So and I had my shit pretty much basically on the basic level together for my age, if not more, because people always talk about how old am I for me to have all the shit I got going on right now and it's like I'd be like at the time I was 25. No, I lie, I'd love to be 20. Hold up, get the numbers together. I was 24 by the time I turned 25.

Speaker 2:

Okay.

Speaker 3:

So, and I had my own place, had my own car paid my own bills. No, okay, so, and I had my own place, had my own car, paid my own bills. No man was taking care of me. She's single, y'all, so she's single. It was one of those things. You know, I had my own shit together, so I was like he elected that shit at the same time. He know, his shit wasn't together he just moved back here from, I think was it columbia?

Speaker 3:

I think it was columbia. Yeah, just moved back so he did not have his own place. He also had a situation going on. No, it wasn't still currently going on. It was an old situation that they were trying to figure out about a kid, or rather if that was his kid or not, and I think the child was like either five or six, damn, but she went that long not telling him Fuck the mother. The child was like either five or six. Damn.

Speaker 3:

But she went that long not telling him. Fuck the mother. She went that long not telling him and I think don't quote me but I think at the time she was dealing with somebody and she made that person think or feel that that was their kid. I got someone's question for her just now and then, in reality, I think something came to a point where she had to tell him, because something came up to it, that's not his kid, and he found out. So, um, turns out it was his kid, but it's the first one or the second, the second one the dude.

Speaker 3:

I'm the dude, I'm talking turns out it was his kid and they were trying to figure out he didn't know the father. He didn't know for years that that was possibly first of all five years.

Speaker 2:

Oh, just being five years old, like that's just like a lot of time I mean, that's not.

Speaker 3:

This is a lot of time, but it's still early enough true, but I feel like you.

Speaker 2:

You, at this point, you missed the baby being born, not cutting the cord you missed the beginning growing up and this child can actually walk you missed the beginning moments, but there's still some.

Speaker 3:

There's still a lot of growing. Yes, true, but I just missed the.

Speaker 2:

That just that just I feel like the beginning part is very more important.

Speaker 3:

I hate what females does that I'm not saying it's not important, but at the same time, where he met her at, it still was early enough to where you can still install on her on what the man to stay away from, what the man to actually be attracted to, or even to treat her like how you want her man to treat her in the future. It's still early enough, it's not too late to install those things. Granted, you lost more so. More so you, because the infant days she ain't gonna remember, but more so you. You lost the beginning stages of her developing from three months to six months to nine months, to one, and then learning how to walk, crawl, walk and run. Like you miss those. You miss those beginning moments, granted, but you got so much, a lot more that you can still cover. So I wouldn't dwell on what you missed. I will look forward to what's left, which is a lot but I still will be.

Speaker 3:

I feel like that's I don't know the person like that, but I feel like, as a man, that still will be back in your head because I mean, if you, yeah, the back of your head, don't have it on the front, though, true, because you can't get it back and it wasn't your fault, so you do what you got now, which is starting at five or six and all the way to the rest of her life, where you still have time to install in her on how a man is supposed to treat you then it's the fact that the second dude's the father.

Speaker 2:

Then let's not talk like, let's talk about like even with no, let's just let's take it out of this, right, let's take silly, let's take talk like. Let's talk about the like. Even with no, let's just let's take it as it is right. Let's take silly, let's take it as it is Okay. Let's go back to the first dude who been there One to five Maybe, caught the bill in the card and everything that shit right there. I know it hurt his feelings.

Speaker 3:

I I know it hurt his feelings for real. It hurt his feeling for you I remember now, every dude is different, so some dudes may not really care that much they.

Speaker 2:

It really depends on the dude all right, let's say the dude did get in that situation. He cared like I mean, yeah, you won't be hurt by it.

Speaker 3:

But at the same time, just look at that if you were to find out later, you would have missed more shit besides just an umbilical cord, true? So it's like you gotta look at a situation where it's like be lucky you met her at five and not 15 or 25 that's way late, because maybe you got some mother.

Speaker 2:

You have to question that I mean regardless.

Speaker 3:

This question's gotta be asked. But five is better than 15.

Speaker 2:

I just feel bad for the first dude though, because, like, like I said also too, I don't remember that part fully on that whole dynamic.

Speaker 3:

I know she went that long not telling.

Speaker 2:

Sham on her, the second person that it possibly could be his.

Speaker 3:

I don't get sham on her. I mean Sham on her. I'm person that it possibly could be his.

Speaker 1:

I don't get shame on her, I mean, I mean.

Speaker 3:

Shame on her Like.

Speaker 1:

I hate when you see, I'm not saying it's right.

Speaker 3:

I'm not saying that's right Because if I'm confused on who Baby Data is, I'm not gonna pretend like it's you.

Speaker 2:

I'd rather you be honest and be like this kid might not be yours, I don't know if it was. Uh, imagine if he signed a birth certificate. That shit is hard to come off. Statewise, south Carolina. You are physically responsible for that kid, no matter what. You are responsible for that kid until Because it's the system that you have to go to take the person off. I might be wrong Not saying I might be wrong, not saying I might be wrong. But yeah.

Speaker 2:

Yeah. Yeah, I might be wrong, so here's the system on that topic If you have a sex with multiple dudes, why not be honest at the beginning?

Speaker 3:

Let's what you say. If you having sex, if a female is having sex with multiple dudes, why isn't she being honest from the beginning? Now, when I say the statement, this is not me saying that is fair or right. That's not me saying that. But girls who do do that, they play in the game like niggas do.

Speaker 2:

And what's the game?

Speaker 3:

Multiple bitches and not letting them know I got another bitch in the back or on the side or on the front. If they get caught up is when they get caught up, but they're use. They're gonna use it to their ability until then, as long as they can. That's mostly what games the niggas play. When they got multiple bitches nine times a day, they are not going to tell you they got another bitch, even if the bitch is next door to your ass. He is not going to tell you nine times out of ten. There is not a lot of honest niggas out here that will let you know like, hey, I got some, I got a situation already going on and but I want to be fucking you too. There's not a, there's not a lot of niggas. That would be that brutally honest. Which is saying there was females, but I'm saying females who actually do that. They playing the game like niggas do, because they either got played already or they see how the game being played and they don't even try.

Speaker 2:

She couldn't even put in but I feel like, I feel like don't, don't, don't shoot me down. I feel like it puts female more at risk than dudes because, say like you had a baby right, you don't even know who the baby father is let's see granted with that at the same time but you know what you've been doing, though, from the start I mean yeah, you know what you've been doing at the same time before.

Speaker 3:

But you know what you've been doing, though, from the start. I mean, yeah, you know what you've been doing, but at the same time, before you were even doing what you were doing, you could have did birth control, you could have walk-on-do, you could have also abort. So it's like you have options to either prevent pregnancy or to get rid of one. So it's one of those shit hell, even if you do go for the pregnancy, you could do adoption. True, so you have, as a woman, you have options to go about that route of preventing pregnancy or getting rid of the pregnancy, or letting go of the child now I'm also.

Speaker 2:

I'm gonna say this about the fucking dudes too, because sometimes dudes do do this shit too and they need to take accountability. Wrap that shit up if you know you not ready, if you know you not ready for kids. I'm making this face because I know what you're saying and it makes sense cause you know you not ready for kids and you out here sticking dick in Tom Dick, sherry, but you can catch Tom in between that though, and 90 of these motherfuckers do not give a fuck.

Speaker 3:

They're not even thinking about none of that. They're not even thinking. Listen, and some niggas do think about it and don't, and still don't give a fuck. Because you know why all they're worried about is hitting it raw, especially depending on the bitch, if they really wanted to fuck her, and she's bad, and she's bad and so I got fat ass or whatever it is that's making them intriguing to them. They're not gonna give fuck. Even if they think about it, they still don't give a fuck. That's 90 of them. It's only a rare few that actually gives a fuck about wrapping it up. It's a rare few that actually gives a fuck about bearing a child in this world that they're not ready for. There is a. There's rare fews that actually take these things in consideration and the ones who even do most of times in the times. For the ones who do think about it, they still hit it raw and if they don't hit it raw the first time, eventually they hit it raw.

Speaker 2:

The next time they said my pull-up game was it's phenomenal. Sir, your pull-up game is fucking weak. First of all, you got the girl fucking pregnant.

Speaker 3:

Weak or not, pre-game can still get a bitch pregnant. We are not pregame to still get a bitch pregnant, mm-hmm. So, and you don't even and a lot of times dudes don't even know they precame because they didn't fully come yet. So at the same time, it's all still a risk. Everything, everything in life, sex, sexually, non-sexually is a risk. It's about what risk you willing to take and clearly you, and clearly you hitting the raw, whether you thought of it or not you know there's a risk, you just need out True.

Speaker 3:

You know there's a risk. So me personally, I want kids, but I want to be ready for them. Not only that, I want to be financially ready for them, just in case a nigga want to back out or not. So not saying I want a nigga to back out, but if we looking at society today, A lot of niggas don't be there for their child.

Speaker 2:

Well, on top of that, I'm going to put something on top of that Choosing the right motherfucking nigga, that you want them and not him. You want them to have their kid. You want them to have their kid too.

Speaker 3:

Hold up. Wait, that's not guaranteed either, because one? No, that's not guaranteed, because you can meet somebody motherfuckers with masks all day and got longevity. So I already know there's niggas out here that will make this image like oh, he's the perfect father, he and he's going through the pregnancy. Well, when the baby get here, 360.

Speaker 2:

I'm actually watching, do you but let's talk about the niggas. You said longevity, all right, okay, so some females like the trap niggas all right so do you think that is okay for females?

Speaker 3:

what you just said look what you just said. Look what you just said. No, that shit ain't fucking okay. No, that shit okay. But people think it's. Even when you do it to a celebrity, that shit ain't fucking okay. No, that shit ain't fucking okay. But people think, even when you do it to a celebrity, that shit is not. I don't care how, granted they bald first of all.

Speaker 3:

But you, just another baby mama out here, just like the rest of them and you know what they prefer, and for them, they feel as though I'd rather be a baby mama to a nigga that's making money versus a broke nigga that ain't you know, I could get behind, that I can get behind that any logic I get it. Is it something I would do? No, because that's not the ideal I want, true, but I'm not gonna knock.

Speaker 3:

I'm not gonna knock on another person because, logically, yes, it makes sense I would rather have a nigga that's making money versus having a baby for a broke one. Yes, logically, yes, but is that ideal for me? No, I want a loving situation where we're together, we're raising our kids together, we evolving as as as individuals, we evolving as couples and we evolving as a family. I want that, I want the unity, I want the stability, I want the love and I want all of that. I want the, the foundation. So, granted, I understand a woman's logic where she said she'd rather have a. I want the stability, I want the love and I want all of that. I want the foundation. So, granted, I understand a woman's logic where she says she'd rather have a baby with a nigga with money versus a nigga that don't got money. I understand that those are for those type of females I ain't one of those but I understand what they're saying.

Speaker 2:

But I feel like, with you though, you a real woman, though. Like you know what I mean by that might say I was born a real bitch. You're a real bitch because, like there's a lot of say, bitch, we're gonna use respect for you are a fine, classy ass woman who have her ratchet days at moments, but she, she know what she wants in life. You know what you want in life and that's why I love you and that's why I respect you for that.

Speaker 3:

I wouldn't Okay. I know Some things Of what I want in life.

Speaker 2:

There's other things that still agree or question my career, true, but I'm just At this point, right now. Right now, all I can say is so all the bad bitches who are just like you, All I'm going to say is, if we're talking about on a baby daddy aspect I don't got one.

Speaker 3:

But I know one thing. I've been saying this for the past few months because I had to sit down with myself If I ever was in a situation where I had a baby daddy and we weren't together, I would rather choose my baby daddy than it being an accident Because this is as much as an accident as the same as when it gets cancelled Because I didn't choose you to be my baby daddy, so I'm not going to have your child Period. So if I'm fucking on you and there's a potential of me having sex, having a baby by you we having sex raw half the time or sometimes and there's a potential of me having sex, having a baby, we having sex raw half the time or sometimes and there's a potential of me getting pregnant, I already know it's not even a risk. I already know what I'm doing, so that if it was to happen, I'm keeping it.

Speaker 3:

I'm keeping it you keeping it, I'm keeping it, I'm keeping it. Nine times ten. We had a conversation on so what? 9 times 10. We had a conversation on so what happens if I was to get pregnant? Cause, you know, we barely use, we ain't using shit now, you gotta have that conversation the thing is, I'll have that conversation, not depending on what you say but well now, these days you gotta be you gotta be quick with it.

Speaker 3:

Cause Rovers the wave is cancer by picking baby daddy is one of those things. We got a good communication. Whether we fucking or not, we have an understanding, we have a basic friendship. We have a good friendship to whether we can communicate and for you as a child, whether we're together or not. So, and also that main thing, you are going to be there and you are, and if you have kids already because there was a time I was not fucking with nobody who had kids if you have kids already, I am paying attention on how your fathering skills are with your children, because that shows me a lot because those are the kids you already have here. So if I'm going to procreate with you on new kids in the future, there's one of those I gotta look at how you raise the ones you got now. Now, with that with someone who have kids is one of those. My strict rule is one baby mom.

Speaker 3:

Not two, not three. One baby mom Because one, that's it. Because one, because it's one of those I had to before. The self of me before that said no baby daddies came to the self now and said okay, one child Well, not one child, but one baby mom was okay. Because shit happens, true, we living in life. And it's like on top of that, my age range of what I would date went, got longer too, because back then it was like, okay, nobody, nobody more than five years. Now, oh, we're going up to 10.

Speaker 3:

Because because, um, I second that because niggas my age, I'm not gonna going to say all, clarify, not all, but a good bit ain't shit and ain't worth pushing a child out for, to get the headache and all that stuff, because I'm carrying your child for nine months.

Speaker 3:

Let me find one that even if we not together, you still gonna be there. You still wanna be at appointments, you still wanna plan birthdays, even if we got somebody else. On both sides that's a bonus mom and a bonus dad. We have an understanding. Niggas be trying to collect baby mamas like they a fucking trophy. Um bitch Like the coins like your cash. Chick-chick collect baby mamas like they're a fucking trophy um bitch. Like the coins, like your cash. Yeah, I knocked that one up nobody else did but me wait.

Speaker 2:

What like this is a competition, because I'm first.

Speaker 3:

I kid you on god, I'm first there's a lot of people around our ages pregnant and got kids and shit like that bitches who don't? Got kids. It's one of those niggas be trying to impregnate fast and it's like you're not about to put me in the club they want a whole football team.

Speaker 2:

Fuck football teams.

Speaker 3:

They're just trying to get that one out.

Speaker 2:

They're trying to get you out at the game from the other niggas and it's like ain't nothing wrong having kids, cause I want my own, but it's one of those you.

Speaker 3:

It takes a certain nigga to get me out, and a lot of you niggas ain't it, and she trying to clock out.

Speaker 2:

I'd be damn if. Um, but she said she was still clocking until she found the right one.

Speaker 3:

I don't mind dropping one if I can find the right one. Right, I know somebody right now, actually, but but if that was to happen, but but you wouldn't want it to happen. It takes the right person. I mean good parents. I didn't have my daddy around. I want somebody who's going to be there and it's not about the money For real, that affection, that love, that care and that support I did not have. I want my child to have something I did not have.

Speaker 2:

Facts. But on top of that I want my child to do better than me, and I'm going to just say that I'm not going to go into that because that's a whole different, other conversation.

Speaker 3:

But I do have a response to that though.

Speaker 2:

You can respond.

Speaker 3:

Because 90% of parents want their kids to be better than that. At the same time, don't have any pressure on them about that.

Speaker 2:

And also I'm not going to burden my child the same thing I went through, Because every child, I want my child to have their experience in life, because that's how they're going to grow as an individual and as a person.

Speaker 3:

And also have that mindset and have that strategy skill how to deal with people in this world but that's gonna be all throughout life though yeah from younger age to teenage age to young 20s college, even when you're almost close to old people out of college because, like because it's gonna be a time they're gonna give a fuck about shit, that later on they realize I don't give a fuck about none of that shit. I don't even know why the fuck I gave a fuck. The last time I gave a fuck Like I kid you, not shit I was stressed about. Now, by the time I'm 35, I'm like bitch, what the fuck is wrong with you.

Speaker 2:

You're going to reminisce.

Speaker 3:

You're going to reminisce give a fuck about none of this shit, what we doing. Can I go? Are we good, are we not good? I don't care, it's gonna be one of them type of shit. I don't care. You know why? Because when you get to the understanding that life is gonna go on, it's gonna go on Preach. At the end of the day, the day gonna end.

Speaker 1:

No.

Speaker 3:

At the end of the day, the day gonna end. The days ain't gonna stop for nobody so at the end of the day at the end of the day you don't want to fuck on, and it may take time depending on what it is, but at the end of the day, your life is still going, unless you do other shit, but your life is still going and that note right there and we're going and we are going and so, yeah, you are listening to just the two of us.

Speaker 2:

I am your host, zachary williams. Zach attack on his ones and twos. You are sitting with your co-host, jasmine bitch yes, and so see y'all later.